Choosing between Heaven and Hell

Somebody texted me:

The Conflict:

• The one who loves You or the One you Love

The Comparison:

1. The one you love will keep you hoping but the one who loves you will offer you everything.
2. The one you love can give you a moment while the one who loves you can give you eternity.
3. The one you love can ease your pain, yet the one who loves you can take that pain and own it instead.
4. The one you love could break your heart but the one who loves you will do anything to rebuild it.
   

Here is where the confusing part comes..

The Choice:

• The ONE YOU LOVE, for the heart has reasons that any reason can never understand..

My Comments:

1. Definitely if you pick the choice given, then you are a martyr my friend. Before you start loving others, you should love yourself first (of course only to some extent). This is because if you respect and love thyself, then you can extend that love to other persons.
2. Love is all but a state of mind. Most of us relate the feelings of to our heart. Didn't you know that if you have a heart transplant, you will still love the same person after the surgery? This is because love is all in the mind. If you really want to love somebody, use your mind then your heart. Don't be stupid because it will not be healthy.
3. Be open minded. Yep, being in love can be the most addictive thing that we can induce ourselves without any drug. This can lead us to our destruction. Be kind to yourself and open your heart and mind to other possibilities. If someone who you think cares and loves you more than your current love, then better think twice before continuing your crazyness.